Here they come… the holidays, the relatives, and the insane schedules!
Now is a great time to take a moment, BEFORE things get too crazy, to talk to your family about some common sense safety tips. There will be lots of interactions with family and friends, new experiences and new places. Take time to practice “what if” scenarios with your kids.
Making time to talk safety with your kids will take some of the anxiety out of your holidays!
Safety while shopping:
- Have a designated spot (a sales counter) to meet at if you get separated.
- Have younger kids practice your name and cell phone number.
- Remind kids never to leave the store, no matter what!
- Practice identifying “safe grown ups” while you are out (e.g., Mom with kids).
- Older kids should always take a friend when going to the mall.
- Kids need to check first with you before going anywhere or accepting gifts.
- Never leave children unattended in stores, arcades, or playgrounds.
Safety at parties:
- Let your child choose who they wish to show affection to. Do not force them to kiss or hug someone. Kids need to know they have power over their own bodies.
- Check in on kids during large gatherings. Have each adult take 20 minute “shifts” to do a quick walk through the house/yard and check on the kids to make sure that they are doing OK.
- Kids should check first with a parent before going off with someone (e.g., to play video games in a bedroom or leaving the house to go play outside.
- If someone is making your child uncomfortable (excessive tickling, hugging, wrestling) intervene on your child’s behalf to end the behavior. Your child needs to know that you will protect them.
